Intruders

I was annoyed by this one community guy last week. He has major AA, thinks he is the shit, banged 4 fat chicks, talks and talks and he is a really bad wing to have because no girls with any value will like him. So he came into my set, pretended to know me so he can get in and sat down next to me in the couch. As soon as he sat down, I'm thinking in my head "Get the fuck away". Pick up is all about being flexible, thinking quick in your feet, so I immediately back turned and ignored him completely. The last thing I want is a chode in my set. Remember, secret society "However, rules state that if if the non-member is "creepy/scary" (kinos too much, leans in too much, asks dumb questions, tries too hard to impress, overqualifies), then the male member will be expected to return either alone or with another male member."

This is totally true. If you have a lot of skill, the worst thing that can happen to you is this. A guy with no skill comes in and ruins it for you. This happened to me many times and frankly, I'm sick of it. That's why I like to go alone these days but I have too many friends and that doesn't happen often. What makes things worse is after me back turning, he still sat there like a retard for 20 minutes and here and there he tried to talk to my target. That's unacceptable.

So who was this member? Try to make a guess but if I'll make one promise. If I ever see your rude self in set, I will come in too and chances are that I will get the girl you're talking to. It's time you taste your own medicine and learn to respect others.

Song of the week.

Fabolous ft Ne-Yo - You Make Me Better



Here are the Lyrics. They're insane. Whoever wrote this song is bad ass at what he/she does.


[INTRO: Ne-Yo, Fabolous]
Timbo.
Hey, Ne-Yo.
Say what? Low soul.
Hey, hey.

[CHORUS: Ne-Yo]
I'm a movement by myself.
But I'm a force when we're together.
Mami I'm good all by myself.
But baby you, you make me better.
You make me better.
You make me better.
You make me better.
You make me better.
You make me better.
You make me better.
You make me better.
You make me better.

[Fabolous]
You plus me, it equals better math.
Ya boy a good look but, she my better half.
I'm already bossin', already flossin'.
But why I have the cake if it ain't got the sweet frostin'? (yep yep yep yep).
Keepin' me on my A game (what what what what).
Wit'out havin' the same name (that that that that that).
It may fling (but but but but).
But shawty, we burn it up.
It's sag in my swag, pimp in my step.
Daddy do the Gucci, mami intercepts.
Guess it's a G thing, whenever we swing.
I'ma need Coretta Scott, if I'm gon' be King.

[CHORUS]

[Ne-Yo]
First thing's first, I does what I do.
But everything I am, she's my improve.
I'm already boss, I'm already fly.
But if I'm a star, she is the sky (ahh ahh ahh).
And when I feel like I'm on top (she she she).
She give me reason to not stop (eh eh eh eh eh).
And though I'm hot (too too too).
Together we burn it up.

[Fabolous]
The caked up cut, the cleaned up ice.
The shawty come around, I clean up nice.
Diamond McDuo, Batman, Robin.
Whoever don't like it, it's that man problem (eh eh eh).
And when I feel like I'm tired (ma ma ma).
Mami be takin' me higher (ah ah ah ah ah).
I'm on fire (but but but).
But shawty we burn it up.

[CHORUS]

[Voices]
Inside every great man, you can find a woman like a soldier holdin' him down.

[Fabolous]
And she treats me like a dawg, watches for the hit.
Checks where I go, even watches who I'm wit.
The right when I'm wrong, so I never slip.
Show me how to move, that's why I never trip.
And baby girl, you so major, they should front-page ya (front page ya).
God bless the parents who made ya (who made ya).
Middle fingered anybody who hate the,
Way that we burn it up.

[CHORUS]

[Fabolous speaking]
Yeah baby, them lames you playin' wit.
They gon' put you down.
We tryin' to compliment ya, you know?
Make it better.
Top-notch Tim.
Nice-look Ne-Yo.
Livin' good low soul.
They ask you how you doin' now, tell 'em better 'den them.
Ha ha ha ha ha ha.

[CHORUS]

The Aura of a Player

It's when large percentage of the girls go nuts with their hair after they meet you. They throw IOIs like crazy. If met through a friend from social circle (or a safe way in), the overwhelming majority of girls will do this.

It's when you talk and they turn to their friend and say "he is good".

It's when they accuse you of being a player.

The best compliment a girl can give me is to call me a "Player". I love this and it's starting to happen quiet often to me now. Then again, it might be a fluke. I'll wait and see how often this happens before I get a big head.

Weight Loss Meter

Woke up today weighing in at 194 pounds and also dehydrated. Funny thing is that if I didn't drink or go out this weekend, I would have been around 192.5 or so. I love/hate the weekends. Love it because I always meet a girl and hate it because I always gain a pound or two.

I'll try to cut down on my eating and drinking next weekend and really push to go down to around 191. My ideal weight would be around 180 pounds. If I drop to 170, I'll be shredded.

A joke to start this weekend.

I love this. Sarah Silverman destroys on Paris and I have nothing against Paris. I actually think that she is pretty cool.

Don't be another community guy

I recently heard of a funny story. It's funny and sad. A community guy was in set and he ran into a non responsive girl. Of course, him being a total social retard, he said to her "You're boring".

This is not a fly thing to do. Boy, if I got a penny every time i saw some thing retarded like that, i'd have enough money to buy one of you a drink. Of course, that would break another pathetic community rule, so I wouldn't do that (sigh).

This is why community guys never improve and one of the reasons I decided to stay away from them. Guys really need to learn how to be normal before reading a book about seduction and really think twice about throwing negs. I've heard too many stories of these idiots getting kicked out of clubs. At the same time, I've done things like this too and I can totally relate to it. I have messed up on many different occasions but after a while, I developed social calibration and this shit never happened.

Recently I read a TD article where he said that after a while, your social skills will be at a point where no one can keep up with you. Every thing you say is so socially calibrated and this is so true. I've personally witnessed this when I was helping the SocialHitchHiker in his bootcamps. The things that comes out of his mouth are really amazing that's one reason why I love that guy. Every time we hang out, I get newer insights into things.

Here is an example of his social calibration:

Single Mom: .... and that why I don't go out very often because I don't have much time.

SocialHitchHiker: I know what you're talking about. I used to date a single mom and she was really busy with her kids. She had to cook for them and drop them of to school and it was always special when she found some time to go out. [The delivery of this was amazing]

Single Mom: [Feel understood, she feels special and opens up to him even more]

Vibe: [Thinking "damn, I should have said that". This is where I gained a deeper understanding about what social calibration is and ever since then, i've been trying to say things that are socially to the point. This is also another proof that all game is not inner game.]

Calibration is another reason why guys who use routines tend to do horribly. Most community guys are horribly socially calibrated and when a person like that uses routines, they spit out the routine at bad times and creep out every one.

My point is, learn how to offer social value by making every thing a "hit". I'm not there yet but doing my best to get there. Do this and all the girls in your social circle will love you and you'll be able to at least #close every time you go out.

Song of the week.

It's been about a week and again, it's time for the song of the week. This one is from Cascada - Everytime We Touch. I think she is German and just to let you guy on a juicy secret, Awesome, Seattle's biggest asshole is in love with this song. He has a soft heart after all and i think he's gonna hate me for publicly stating this....muahahahahahah





I still hear your voice, when you sleep next to me.
I still feel your touch in my dreams.
Forgive me my weakness, but I don't know why
Without you it's hard to survive.

'Cause every time we touch, I get this feeling.
And every time we kiss I swear I could fly.
Can't you feel my heart beat fast, I want this to last.
Need you by my side.
'Cause every time we touch, I feel this static.
And every time we kiss, I reach for the sky.
Can't you hear my heart beat so...
I can't let you go.
Want you in my life.

Your arms are my castle, your heart is my sky.
They wipe away tears that I cry.

The good and the bad times, we've been through them all.
You make me rise when I fall.

'Cause every time we touch, I get this feeling.
And every time we kiss I swear I could fly.
Can't you feel my heart beat fast, I want this to last.
Need you by my side.
'Cause every time we touch, I feel this static.
And every time we kiss, I reach for the sky.
Can't you hear my heart beat so...
I can't let you go.
Want you in my life.

'Cause every time we touch, I get this feeling.
And every time we kiss I swear I could fly.
Can't you feel my heart beat fast, I want this to last.
Need you by my side.

Workout Plan

I started my workout program last Monday after I realized that I've gained too much weight from partying too much. Here is a quick update of how things went.

Monday: Did some cardio in the morning for 30 minutes, if I remember correctly. Cardio in an empty stomach is the best.

Tuesday: Went to my boxing class. Boxed for 2 hours straight and almost puked. On top of that, my instructor didn't open the windows and the class was full and it was about 90 fucking degrees inside. After a while, I felt so dizzy. I started seeing doubles and that's when I said "fuck it" and left the class. I went outside and sat for a good 15 minutes until I stopped seeing doubles. It was actually scary.

Wednesday: Didn't plan on doing cardio but had to help an old friend move his Suzuki 750. He went on a business trip and none of his friends could ride a motorcycle. So I had to move it from the storage unit to outside and his bike was fucking heavy. I was sweating like a pig! J, if you're reading this, you better take me out to dinner when you come back. Make sure you wear a nice suite and open all the doors for me too because it was a pain in the ass. You'll will be my bitch for that night :)

Thursday: Boxing. That class nearly killed me again. My stomach was sore for few days. Damn those crunches.

Friday: Day off

Saturday: Went to the gym and got lazy and ended up doing my neck

Sunday: Cardio morning and evening

Monday: Day off

It's Tuesday and I'm at 196 pounds. By next weekend, I'll probably be below 195.

My struggle with the SOIs:

I didn't know any thing about SOIs until I took the Charisma Arts bootcamp and it has been a long struggle for me to really understand SOIs. They can be as blunt as saying "I find your lust for skydiving really sexy about you. I'm so sick at all these girls who stay home and do nothing and it's a breath of fresh air to talk to some one who is different" By the way, dropping a well calibrated SOI like that is just like dropping a nuke. It'll get attraction. Lots of it and it will change the way she will interact with me. I love it.

At the same time, SOIs can be different. I don't have to tell her she is sexy for her to know that I'm after a relationship that's romantic. There are ways to convey that. Here is an example of a SOI that doesn't have the word sexy:

She: .... and when I was in Italy, I went to Venice and took a trip on the boat and took pictures of all the historical buildings.

Vibe: That's wonderful. I'd be scared to those ride one of those small boats because they might tip over and I'll end up in the dirty water and catch a disease but it's nice to meet a girl who travels a lot. I totally love that. I'm gonna have to make a move on you but I've been to Italy too...... [In this situation, I showed her my sexual interest by telling her thant I'm gonna make a move on her. She will respond to me differently from that point on if she understands my SOI.]

During the bootcamp, they told me to find a unique quality about her and SOI and that's not true. The most important factor in delivering a SOI is not her unique quality. The most important part is for me to grab my balls and do it with 100% congruency. If I really believe that she is the most beautiful girl on earth, I can walk up to her and say:

Vibe: "Excuse me. I'm standing over there and I couldn't help but to notice you. You're the most beautiful girl I've ever seen"

She: Melts

In this case, she knows what I'm after and she would accept the SOI because I'm totally congruent in the way I delivered it. That being said, I don't really like to SOI women on their beauty, unless the approach is done in day time while she is walking. I'd rather find a higher value in her and show my interest in her based on her higher value.

So the second important component of a SOI is for her to have a higher value. A higher value could be that she loves to pain during weekend or that she fells happy when she cuts some ones hair and gives them a new look.

Lastly, when delivering a SOI, the most important thing is not seek her reaction. What I do is make my intentions clear and keep talking.

Ex: I love the fact that you take your weekends off and go to different thrift stores to find cool stuff. That's sexy. I usually go to a mall ever few weeks and do the same thing but I'm looking for cool graphic T-Shirts.

A joke, to start the weekend

A man breaks into a house to look for money and guns. Inside, he finds a young couple in bed. He orders the guy out of bed and ties him to a chair. While tying the homeowner's wife to the bed the convict gets on top of her, kisses her neck, then gets up and goes into the bathroom.

While he's in there, the husband whispers over to his wife: "Listen, this guy is an escaped convict. Look at his clothes! He's probably spent a lot of time in jail and hasn't seen a woman in years. I saw how he kissed your neck.

If he wants sex, don't resist, don't complain...do whatever he tells you. Satisfy him no matter how much he nauseates you. This guy is obviously very dangerous. If he gets angry, he'll kill us both. Be strong, honey. I love you!"

His wife responds: "He wasn't kissing my neck. He was whispering in my ear. He told me that he's gay, thinks you're cute, and asked if we had any Vaseline. I told him it was in the bathroom. Be strong honey. I love you, too."

State managment -- Kill the Aproach Anxeit

One thing that affects a pick-up the most for me is the state I'm in. If I'm in a great state, I will do incredibly good. I have no AA (Approach Anxiety) and I bring every one around me up. If I'm in a shitty state, I get some AA, I'm not too expressive and my sets don't go the way I want them to.

I have two strategies for handling my state. One is to invite my friends to pre-funk at my place before going out. I love my friends outside the community. They don't talk game, we have inside jokes, we make fun of each other, go out and pick up chicks. It's easy and simple. When I'm with them, I'm happy and in an amazing social mood. It's a snowball effect. One makes a joke, everyone laughs and then some one else makes a joke and every one laughs. All that laughter has the snowball affect lifing the mood of the whole group, giving all of us social super powers.

But there are some times where I like to go out alone as well. In this situation, I don't have the luxury of having kick ass friends. In this situation, I blast music, take a shot of Sky Vodca and chase it down with a redbull. Then I take another shot and mix it up with the redbull. Just before I leave my house or car, I finish the redbull. close my eyes and listen to this song by Wisin Y Yandel called Rakata. It makes me feel like the shit and then I slowly open my eyes and wolla, I'm in state.

Here is the video:

School of Vibe

I'm in the process of figuring out what I exactly do in the field and documenting my method. I will try to update this section until the end of this year and exactly figure out what I do. Note: This is my method. These are the things I do and it'll probably wont work for you.

Vibe Method:

Pre-game:

• My Story
  
• How I get into state

Open:

Build your group and have fun:

• Disqualification
• Push-Pulls

Mini-isolate and bring out the best in her:

SOI:

• My Struggle With SOIs
  

Relationship situation:

Sexual Barriers:

Number close or more:

Total time: About 20-25 minutes.

Song of the week

I'm usually bored at my job, so I love to kill my time by listening to songs on youtube.com. Youtube is probably my second favorite site, first one being gmail and myspace at number 3 and this blog would be number 4.

But after a while, listening to the same songs get really old, so I decided to look for this Arabic song called habibi, but I discovered some thing much cooler. It's this female group called Milk & Honey and I'm in love with them. It consist of two girl, one who is probably Arabic and the other one, a German blond. Their songs has lyrics in French, Arabic and English.

The dark-haired girl is so HOT in this video. I'd love to do... never mind. There are kids who are reading this blog. I don't want them to read things that are illegal in the civilized world. If I see a girl like her, I would soooo fucking approach her and make her mine.




Here are the lyrics:


Habibi Je t'aime
(Tu es mon roi)
Et je suis ta reine
(Milk and Honey)

Verse 1:
Shagali bali ta3abli hali 3asabli albi w hobi huwa amani huwa makani huwa habibi ou albi kalamni tani la tkun anani faker fe shoi ou orbi saharni layali ta3abli hali 3asab hayati w albi

Chorus:
Habibi Je T'aime
Et Je Suis Ta Reine

Verse 2:
I like the way you pay me attention and the way you give me affection
Can't you feel my hot temptation don't you want to know my attention

Bridge:
Love and passion for all the nation, love and passion bring you servation ( 2 mal)

Chorus:
Habibi Je T'aime
(Tu es mon roi)
Et Je Suis Ta Reine
(Ecoute moi)
Come with me I promise you my love is true its now or never
Come with me I promise you my love is true

verse 1:
Shagali bali ta3abli hali 3asabli albi w hobi huwa amani huwa makani huwa habibi ou albi kalamni tani la tkun anani faker fe shoi ou orbi saharni layali ta3abli hali 3asab hayati w albi

Chorus:
Habibi Je T'aime
Et Je Suis Ta Reine

verse 3:
All the games that drive me crazy, just make me wanna be your lady
The way your playing with me then I know the woman to be
albi albi hobi hobi kunte inta ha terbah
albi,albi albi hobi hobi do you want milk and honey (kuss)

chorus:
habibi
Je t'aime
(Tu es mon roi)
Et je suis ta Reine
(Ecoute moi)
come with me I promise you my love is true its now or never
come with me I promise you my love is true

verse1:
Shagali bali ta3abli hali 3asabli albi w hobi huwa amani huwa makani huwa habibi ou albi kalamni tani la tkun anani faker fe shoi ou orbi saharni layali ta3abli hali 3asab hayati w albi

Verse4:
Du fond du coeur, chéri je t'aime
dans ton royaume je serais ta reine,
...your the owner of my heart,
And we’ll never be apart, promise you belong to me… to eternity

chorus:
habibi Je t'aime
(Tu es mon roi)
Et je suis ta Reine
(Ecoute moi)
come with me I promise you my love is true its now or never
come with me I promise you my love is true

habibi
Je t'aime
(Tu es mon roi)
Et je suis ta Reine
your the owner of my heart,
And we’ll never be apart, promise you belong to me…to eternity
saharni layali ta3abli hali 3asab hayati w albi


Then I saw this video. The blond looks hotter. What can I say, I have a thing for girls with curly hair. She reminds me of Shakira in Whenever, whenever.

Time to loose some weight again:

Woke up today and realized that I've gained a good 6 pounds in the last 3 weeks (FUCK). That's what happens to me when I work with outgoing coworkers. All of them want to get Indian food or Asian food for lunch and I get peer pressured into going with them. On top of that, I try to go out 3 times a week and that means consuming a shitload of calories. I had it enough of that. I'm going back to doing 30 minutes of cardio right after waking up. On top of that, I'll do 2 hours of martial arts. Time to loose about 15 pounds in the next 6 weeks and it'll be a piece of cake.


Loosing weight is easy. I've been working out since I was in high school and know my body really well. I can feel when I'm loosing weight and when I'm gaining weight. I can adjust my diet to the point where I can loose 2 pounds every week easily.

One thing that sucks about fast weight loss by doing really intense workouts of boxing and kickboxing is the strain it puts on my immune system. A lot of times, I end up catching a cough and a slight fever after 2-3 weeks of intense workouts. Hopefully, it'll be different this time. I'm planning on loading up on Vitamins and Echinichea and ask the doctor for advice of I get symptoms of a fever or cold. Plus I have a good 110 hours or sick leave and want to quit my job in the next 6 months. I need to calling in sick more often and cash in those hours.

I will definitly blog more about weight loss and martial arts in the next few weeks. Whatever is going on in my life, I'll blog about. Time to get my fatass back to the gym.

That being said, my start weight is 199.

Getting deeper into push/pull

I'm a huge fan of small chunking things into my game and now I'm really pushing it with the push/pulls. They are great and I'm learning really how to push the boundaries. Say some thing rude, wait for a shocked reaction in her face, then pull her back in. The shocked reaction in her face should only last for a split second and when I pull her back in, I get a big laugh. It really hits a girl, triggering her positive and negative emotions.

Girl: bla bla bal and that's the reason why I've got a puppy.
Vibe: You're a nice girl. I could never fuck you.
Girl: [Shocked look in her face]
Vibe: I would make love to you
Girl: Huge laugh

I can't emphasize the important of push pulls. Mystery does a lot of them and so does Juggler. With me, I improve the push/pulls, and i really have to be in state to do them. For newbies, I recommend them sticking to basic Juggler style push/pulls.

Ex: I don't date blonds, but I'll make an exception for you.

For more advanced guys, who can think on their head quickly, I recommend to really push it with the push pulls. With that I mean, do borderline negs and pull her back in.

Ex:
Vibe: You've got some lipstick in your teeth. (neg)
Girl: [Shocked look]
Vibe: but I love the way put yourself together. You really know a lot about fashion. I like that about you. Where do you go shopping (Vacuum)

That being said, if anyone wants to be a true master of push/pulls, he has to understand what microcalibration is. When I'm in set, I can just feel if I'm pushing too much or pulling her too much and I suspect that's just the beginning. I'm not FULLY calibrated on how much I can push and how much I can pull. It'll take time but I can get away with some nasty push/pulls and it's a REALLY powerful tool that will definitely jump your game to a different level.