Monday, September 18, 2006

I'm good and I don't even know it :(

I think I ran about 5 sets last Friday and 3 of them went very well. First I opened this HBArtistic (HB7) while she was getting a drink. I just looked at her and said "How are you?" She answered, then I related and said "By the way, I'm Vibe". I was in. After running a little game, she was touching her hair like crazy. Now I know women touch their hair when they talk but doing it repeatedly must be a strong IOI. Of course my retarded self isn't that confident about attraction and setting up day2s or getting phone numbers, so I blew it. I think my worst sticking point ever is getting the number. I feel like a number without a day2 is worthless. It just doesn't feel right if I ask for the number out of no where.

The second one I opened was HBAlex(HB8). I was teasing her left and right and she did the same. Started to play with her hair crazy, I threw in the SOI and she was even more into me. Of course I didn't realize how much she was into me. Today one of my coworkers told me that I should have taken it further. "If you don't take it further in the right time, she will think you're a pussy". That was his exact comment. He has his own sense of calibration about women and I still haven't been able to grasp at it. He told me to ask her out next time. Go and say "I want to take you out to this nice Italian restaurant." He also told me, you're the man, so you have to take the lead. I'm amazed how much he learned about dating and he doesn't know any thing about the community. So the next time I'll do that.

Then I go and open this UG and talk to her for a minute. She was touching her hair like crazy too. Hmmmmm what's going on here. While I was talking to her for a little bit, my friend interrupts me and he is like stop talking to the ugly ones. There are others who look good here. But next time I'll keep doing it and ask her out directly. Lets see what's going to happen.

Saturday wasn't a good day because I felt like I've lost my voice. Every time that happens, I loose my inner game and then it's game over for me. But I did manage to get attraction from the HB9 and I even have a hard time believing it. My game is A LOT better than I think it is. I just need to to find a way to set up a date and I think I can do it soon. I probably ran around 15 sets on Saturday :) (most of them went kind of bad)....haha Damn you inner game problems.

But on the bright side, I finally believe that I have enough to game HB8 and HB9s. I think I will be able to game them consistently in the coming weeks. As for right now, the structure of vibe method will be like this.

Open -> SOI withing 5 minutes -> Ask for relationship status -> set a day2 -> Number close. I'll be working on setting up the day2 this weekend. Hopefully I can do it. I'm so close, yet so far.