Sunday, December 03, 2006

What have I learned in the last month:

- disqualification is key. It makes every one laugh and it builds my confidence. Every time I DQ, I reveal that I'm not perfect yet people accepts me as a person, especially the hot girls :)

- push and pull or pull and push is great as well. I might throw a complement like "I find your artistic side of you very sexy but don't get a big head, I hate you already". Girls starts laughing. That's pull and push and I'll start with push and pull more. Say some thing like "you looked intimidating from the far but you're do down to earth so I'm glad I came here and introduced myself"

- It's not bad to do 10 sets a night. I know some guys in the community do only 1 or two sets per night but I'm not that good. So don't get upset if I have to do 10 sets a night.

- If the state is fucked up, start smiling. It will bring you back in the mood. Smiling is a powerful anchor it seems like and it will always get you into a happy state :) I lose my state this weekend and that's how I've got it back.

- Takeaways are great because it lets you go back to the set easier but you run the risk of loosing the girl or the girl talking to some other guys.

- Wear lighter colors, it will make you less intimidating.

- Walk in with a slight smile, open lips because it will get you more IOIs. It's just like the way models walk in the runway. This is huge for me. I still have trouble smiling.

- I do better when other guys are watching me and I have to defend my reputation. Then I go in with fire or 100% commitment.