Sunday, September 02, 2007

Getting deeper into push/pull



I'm a huge fan of small chunking things into my game and now I'm really pushing it with the push/pulls. They are great and I'm learning really how to push the boundaries. Say some thing rude, wait for a shocked reaction in her face, then pull her back in. The shocked reaction in her face should only last for a split second and when I pull her back in, I get a big laugh. It really hits a girl, triggering her positive and negative emotions.

Girl: bla bla bal and that's the reason why I've got a puppy.
Vibe: You're a nice girl. I could never fuck you.
Girl: [Shocked look in her face]
Vibe: I would make love to you
Girl: Huge laugh

I can't emphasize the important of push pulls. Mystery does a lot of them and so does Juggler. With me, I improve the push/pulls, and i really have to be in state to do them. For newbies, I recommend them sticking to basic Juggler style push/pulls.

Ex: I don't date blonds, but I'll make an exception for you.

For more advanced guys, who can think on their head quickly, I recommend to really push it with the push pulls. With that I mean, do borderline negs and pull her back in.

Ex:
Vibe: You've got some lipstick in your teeth. (neg)
Girl: [Shocked look]
Vibe: but I love the way put yourself together. You really know a lot about fashion. I like that about you. Where do you go shopping (Vacuum)

That being said, if anyone wants to be a true master of push/pulls, he has to understand what microcalibration is. When I'm in set, I can just feel if I'm pushing too much or pulling her too much and I suspect that's just the beginning. I'm not FULLY calibrated on how much I can push and how much I can pull. It'll take time but I can get away with some nasty push/pulls and it's a REALLY powerful tool that will definitely jump your game to a different level.

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