Using Push/Pull while SOIing

Here are some examples of push/pull SOI I came up with. I'll go and practice them in the field and see how it goes. Also, i'll go and read swingcat's stuff as well. Obviously his push/pulls are crazy.

Example 1

Make her do some thing

Girl: and the blond said bla bla bla bal bal
Vibe: (laugh) You know, I really hate laughing at blonds but the way you said it was so sexy. I just couldn't help myself. There goes my new years resolution about not laughing at blonds. Ok tell me another one smile

or if it's not a blond joke.

Vibe: You know, that joke was so horrible tongue but the way you said it was so sexy. I just couldn't help but to laugh. Looks like we've got a girl with a sense of humor. Are you a keeper wink

EXAMPLE 2:

She is mean to you during opening

SOI: You, at first I thought you were an ass because you did XXXXXXX but I find it sexy how adventurous you're and how good of a conversationalist you're. I'm adding you to Vibes friends list.

If you feel like you've pulled her too much here, you can always do some thing like:

"but if you don't leave me any comments, I'm gonna kick you off that list. I work like myspace".


EXAMPLE 3:

You're jealous about a certain quality she has

Girl: bla bla bla and I've been writing ever since then and got a 4.0 in my class.
Vibe: I HATE you wink It's not fair that you're such a good writer. That's so sexy, I can't even write two complete sentences smile


EXAMPLE 4:

Tell her one of her items she wears is weird but how every thing makes sense after she explains more about how things go together.

Girl: bla bla bla and that's why I wore them.
Vibe: You know, at first I saw your boots and thought this girl is crazy for wearing them things, but now I understand how you dress and what you're trying to express and it's sexy how you put every thing together.


EXAMPLE 5:

My first impression of you was wrong

Girl: bla bla bla bla bal I volunteer after work to help the little kids.
Vibe: At first I thought you were one of those mean girls that shoot everyone and every thing down and I was intimidated by your posture [mimic it in a funny way] but you have such a big heart and it's so sexy how you like to take your free time and help out those little buggers.


EXAMPLE 6:

She is breaking your stereotypes

Vibe: I always thought violin players were so friggin boring but I was wrong. You're one of the most exciting and passionate people I talked in a while. Matter of fact, I find your passion towards playing the violin is very attractive about you.